Deposits and Your Digital Privacy
- healingartsstudios
- Jan 30
- 2 min read

Okay we all agree that when it comes to discretion cash is king!
But what do you do when you want to meet an adult service provider and she requires an upfront deposit?
By now you’ve already done your research and verified that she is a legitimate provider: checked out her website & social media, googled her phone number, researched her reputation, perhaps booked a text or phone consultation with her and decided that you feel comfortable booking her.
What if you don’t want to leave a digital paper trail by sending her a deposit electronically?
Maybe you're married, sharing accounts with family members, or an employer has access to your devices. Perhaps you're just a stickler for privacy or simply prefer to pay for everything in cash.
I offer clients several options for paying deposits electronically for the sake of convenience, including e-gift cards sent to my email address or phone number from someplace non-incriminating like Amazon or Walmart.
Alternatively, physical gift cards can be purchased with cash at retail stores. I accept prepaid Visa/Mastercard debit cards, Amazon and Walmart gift cards. Once we calculate the amount of your deposit, you can go purchase a physical card in that amount at a local store, then send me photos of the card & receipt. The deposit will then be applied towards the cost of your massage.
When you arrive at my incall (or I arrive at your place) on the date of your scheduled appointment, simply pay the remaining balance due in cash before service begins.
Since most high quality adult service professionals require deposits nowadays, it's becoming increasingly difficult to find providers who don't require at least a small amount upfront to hold your appointment time. (A reasonable deposit is typically less than $100, or around 20% of the total fee.)
As long as the lady in question is a legit provider you shouldn’t worry about sending a deposit.
If you're still feeling unsure about paying an advance deposit, be sure to schedule a text or phone consultation with the provider before scheduling with her or sending a deposit.
This will help you better assess the provider's professionalism, personality, and get a "vibe check" -- potentially saving you money and disappointment later if the two of you don't click in person, or the provider is a fake deposit scammer located somewhere in Bangladesh!
Hope it goes well for you on your search. Play safe and smart out there!
-- Summer
Purrfect Touch Massage
Oklahoma City, OK








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