Frequently Asked Questions
Inquiring minds want to know...
There are a lot of questions that people have when visiting a new Massage Therapist.
I've addressed the most commonly asked ones below. If your question isn't covered here, don’t hesitate to get in touch.
I have concerns about my health. Is it safe to get a massage?
As a certified licensed massage provider I am taking every precaution to ensure the safety of my clients.
My usual sanitary practices include clean linens and towels for each new client, disinfecting & sanitizing all common touch surfaces, bathrooms, showers, vacuuming, and purification of the room air between sessions.
Any client showing symptoms of illness will be declined for service. My health is top priority and I will not risk passing illness on to my other customers. If you're not feeling well on the day of your scheduled appointment, just let me know as soon as possible and we can reschedule for a time when you're fully recovered (your deposit will be applied to a future visit).
Do you require screening?
All new clients must go through a quick, discreet and painless screening process. This is for my safety, and also gives me a better idea of how best to treat your specific needs.
Before I confirm your appointment you will be asked to provide your full name, contact info, a recent selfie, and some vital statistics about yourself (age, height, weight, etc.)
I will ask any prior injuries or chronic pain you have, any history of illness, and about any medications you're taking or allergies you have which helps me customize your massage treatment plan.
If you are requesting a house call, some additional safety screening will be required. (For example, the address for a house call must match the address on your ID, or a piece of mail addressed to you. If you are requesting in-room massage at a hotel, I will call your room phone through the hotel switchboard to verify you are a registered guest and actually occupying the room.)
* IMPORTANT! Please note that in compliance with Oklahoma law all new clients must present a valid photo ID to verify they are at least 18 years of age during the initial screening process.
When are you available?
HOURS:
EVENINGS ONLY
5-9 PM
LATE NIGHT
9 P.M. - Midnight
(Add $80 After Hours Fee)
OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK
All appointments must be booked at least 24 hours in advance.
* Same day appointments are sometimes available depending on my schedule. (add $100 rush priority fee.)
What's the best way to book a massage with you?
Simply go to my CONTACT page, fill out the reservation request form and provide the required screening information.
I'll get back to you within 24-48 hours, depending upon my schedule and availability.
If you have not received a reply within 48 hours, there might be a problem with your screening. Please feel free to send a follow-up text with any questions at 405-367-3966.
Returning clients can drop me a quick text anytime to schedule.
How soon can you see me?
I stay booked well in advance -- reserving your session time 24-72 hour ahead is recommended.
Short notice sessions are rarely available.
In urgent need of relief? Depending on my schedule I can sometimes accommodate same-day appointment requests (an extra $100 rush priority charge applies).
Are you a licensed massage therapist?
Yes. I am licensed and certified in massage therapy. I’ve worked as an MT for more than 15 years in salons, spas, chiropractic offices, and with physical therapists.
In 2015 I discovered the joys of sensual massage and started providing FBSM services. I really enjoy the creativity of sensual bodywork sessions, affording me the freedom to try new techniques I could never do at my day job! (Wink)
Should I arrive early for my appointment?
Please be on time for your appointment.
My schedule is booked tightly and I'll need a few minutes after my previous session to change out fresh linens/towels and clean/disinfect the studio in preparation for for your arrival.
Keep in mind that there is another client scheduled after your session, so you might not get your full massage time if you arrive late.
How should I prepare for my session?
I require all clients to check in by text at least 2 hours before the scheduled session time on the day of your appointment, to confirm you’re feeling well and ready for your massage. If you miss your check-in, your session time will be given to the first person on the waiting list.
Please arrive freshly showered, or you are welcome to use my guest shower before we begin.
It is recommended that you schedule your massage at least an hour after eating. Getting a massage too soon after a meal can interfere with digestion or cause an upset stomach.
If possible, try to plan your massage for a time when you are able to relax afterwards. A massage can make you sleepy, so it's recommended that you schedule it as close to bedtime as possible. You'll enjoy a restful, pain-free night's sleep while your muscles are fully relaxed.
Where can I find you on social media?
You can find my Tryst profile here:
https://tryst.link/massage/bodyrubs-okc2025
Visit me on Velvet22 here:
https://velvet22.com/massage/massage-by-summer
Find me on BlueSky @massagebysummer.bsky.social
I'm very active on Reddit. Follow me for exclusive content, discussions about sensual massage, and Reddit-only specials.
Feel free to send me a DM and say hello! u/MassageBySummer
Are you 420 Friendly?
Yes! I am trained to use CBD and THC infused topical massage products in my massage practice for pain treatment. For my clients who wish to have a “420 Experience,” I design a customized massage treatment session that targets problem areas and treats the body holistically.
Cannabis has amazing anti-inflammatory properties and relaxes your muscles deeply. (Don’t worry, a cannabis massage won’t get you high and you won’t fail a drug test!) You will feel relief of muscular pain, completely relaxed, and sleep like a baby after a session.
If you are an Oklahoma Medical Marijuana patient, feel free to bring along your CBD/THC massage product of choice and ask me to use it for your session. (See my SERVICES page for pricing)
* You must bring your own cannabis-infused massage lotion/oil to the session. I do not sell these products at my studio, or keep them in stock. THC massage products can only be purchased from a licensed dispensary.
I've never had a FBSM before. Is it a sexual service?
No. Sensual Massage (also known as FBSM) is just what the name implies: it is sensual, not sexual.
FBSM is a specialized, legitimate form of therapeutic massage where the focus is on the client's desire to be pampered in a caring, romantic way by a beautiful woman. However, it’s a passive experience for the client. Your job is to relax, enjoy my touch and just let go.
Sensual Massage is all about receiving touch. Sometimes it's nice to just receive, without any expectations to "perform" or reciprocate touch.
I do not allow mutual touch because it interrupts my flow and focus, which is entirely on YOU. Just as touching or fondling your massage therapist at the medical clinic or spa would be inappropriate, that behavior would be frowned upon by me as well.
For FBSM sessions I use a lighter, softer touch than I might normally because FBSM is more about the sensation of touch -- however, I am always happy to apply more pressure or go deep tissue on any trouble spots you need work on.
Please be polite, respectful, and professional when discussing services. Any explicit talk, pics, or sexual requests will be ignored/blocked/deleted. Clients who act inappropriately during a session will be asked to leave immediately. The massage will stop and I will exit the room. No refunds are given for unused time.
If you're new to the world of Sensual Massage and aren't sure what to expect, Google the acronym FBSM. There are lots of helpful websites out there offering advice and tips to newbies on how to get the most out of your first FBSM experience. I also recommend checking out the helpful guide for new clients on my ETIQUETTE page.
Do you offer house calls?
I offer outcalls to select hotels and private residences within the OKC metro area. (Sorry, I don’t travel outside a 30 mile radius.)
Additional safety screening and travel fee are required.
Sometimes it’s really nice after a long day to just stay in and let me come to you. No need to get dressed and drive home after the massage; you can simply fall asleep while you’re feeling relaxed.
Please note that outcall massage services are performed on your bed. (Lugging a massage table and all the necessary supplies around is quite a time-consuming and back-wrenching endeavor!) I ask that you ensure your space is clean and prepared, and that any pets are secured outside the bedroom in advance of my arrival.
Where are you located?
My incall is conveniently located in Northwest Oklahoma City just off Interstate 44 and NW Expressway.
Easy first floor access with ramp for clients who are handicapped or have limited mobility. Shower available.
Do you travel to other cities?
No. I offer outcalls within the Oklahoma City metro area only, and nearby suburbs within a 30 mile radius of my location. Not sure if your location is within my travel area? Submit your desired outcall address on my CONTACT form and I'll calculate the distance for you.
I welcome you to visit my incall next time you’re visiting OKC!
I'm traveling to OKC soon, can I schedule in advance?
Yes, that is recommended to ensure my availability on the specific date/time you need. I'll be happy to reserve your time as many weeks/months ahead as you like. I can also recommend hotels, restaurants, and local points of interest near my incall.
Or, if you prefer, I can do an outcall to your hotel room. (Additional travel fee applies)
What payment methods do you accept?
Cash is King!
Full payment in cash is expected at the start of your appointment. Please be sure to have enough cash with you when you arrive. There are ATM's nearby my incall location. However, if you have to leave and get more cash at an ATM or bank, the extra time I spend waiting for you to return will be added to your bill, or subtracted from your massage time if I have another client booked after you and can't extend the session.
Once your screening is approved, further instructions will be provided to pay your deposit. (Deposits are 20% of your total appointment fee.)
I accept electronic payments for deposits (not for in-person services). You can simply send me a deposit with an Amazon or Walmart e-gift card if you wish. Gift cards can be discreetly purchased online with your credit/debit card, or with cash at retail stores.
Alternatively you can pay your deposit with a credit/debit card, Google Pay or Apple Pay here.
http://YouPay.me/MassageBySummer
What's your cancellation policy?
I require 24 hours notice if you need to modify, reschedule, or cancel your appointment.
Last minute schedule changes are costly for my business, as it's often impossible to give your time slot to another client on short notice.
Of course I understand that illness and last-minute emergencies happen. If you’re unable to make your appointment time, or can’t reschedule within 30 days, your deposit will be forfeited.
"No-call No-shows" won’t be allowed to make appointments with me in the future and are reported to national “bad client” blacklists.
If I need to cancel your appointment for any reason, your deposit will be refunded, or applied to a rescheduled appointment (your choice).
I am truly excited to meet every new client; seeing repeat clients builds up a happy anticipation for both of us -- so that's why 98% of my clients DO actually show up at the scheduled day/time — it's a special treat to be pampered and they're looking forward to it!
What is Bondassage?
You may not be too familiar with the name, but Bondassage (sometimes called "Tie 'N' Tease) is the latest in indulgent sensation play, combining FBSM with basic bondage techniques and sensory delights.
The client’s hands and feet will be gently bound and secured during the massage. Some clients like to be blindfolded during the session so they are more aware of the sensations without the sense of sight. A typical session often involves a combination of sensations (tickling, scratching, light spanking or whipping, use of electronic massage devices, etc..) as well as a full body sensual massage.
If you’re curious to learn more about Bondassage, there are some helpful videos of actual Bondassage sessions available on YouTube.
At the start of each Bondassage session, I will spend a few minutes discussing specific activities and your comfortable boundaries. If there’s something you’re not at ease with (or something new you’ve always wanted to try!) let me know. Each session is customized to the individual client’s needs and comfort level.
What’s the difference between a foot massage and an Ashiatsu massage?
A brief basic massage of your feet is included in every FBSM session (unless you’re ticklish or want me to skip the feet).
Asiatsu is an ancient technique where I use only my feet to massage your entire body instead of my hands.
This is not a “walk on your back” massage. It is rather a light to medium pressure touch that focuses more on the pleasure of feeling soft bare feet or sexy stockings against your skin.
It takes about 20 minutes of your session time to perform an Ashiatsu massage. You can add it to any massage package on my menu. Perfect for those with a foot fetish!
Do you offer discounts?
Yes, I offer occasional specials around holidays, and other special occasions such as birthdays, anniversaries, and weddings.
My Reddit followers also get special offers, so be sure to follow me at u/MassageBySummer
I offer year-round a 10% discount to U.S. armed forces men and women and veterans with military ID. Just mention your military service when booking online.
First responders always get 10% off, because our heroic firefighters, EMT’s and emergency medics deserve some pampering and TLC!
I also offer “frequent flyer” savings for clients who prefer to reserve a certain number of massage sessions per month (once a week or twice a month, for example) and offer discounted package pricing to those who choose to pay the full month in advance.
My "frequent fliers" also get extra perks like bonus social time and priority booking so I'm always available to them as/when needed!
Ask me about monthly package pricing, as each situation is unique. I'll customize a package that's just right for your schedule, budget, and desires...
What exactly is a B2B Massage? How is it different from NURU Massage?
B2B (Body-to-Body) Massage is an ancient sensual massage technique where I use my entire body to massage yours. Also known as a "body slide," a B2B is performed in a swimsuit using warm coconut oil.
B2B differs from NURU in a few key aspects: while NURU requires the client to lay down on a special floor mat, B2B is is performed with the client on a massage table or bed. No need to get up, or change positions...the client can simply relax and enjoy the sensation of my body sliding across their pressure points.
NURU is performed using a seaweed gel (which I'm not a fan of; the NURU gel creates a sticky mess on the skin and takes three showers to get out of your hair! If you have body hair, four or five showers, lol). By contrast, B2B incorporates organic coconut oil for all the slippery fun, while being kind to the skin, and washes or towels off easily after the massage.
My clients tell me they greatly prefer B2B over NURU for these reasons. (I don't offer traditional Japanese NURU massage, sorry!)
Do you see couples?
Yes! Couples sessions have a 2 hour minimum. 60 minute standard FBSM per person is included in the base price listed on my SERVICES page.
Customize you and your partner’s massage package as desired with any options you like from my menu! (B2B for him? Bondassage for her? We can do that…)
Because my treatment room is too small for two massage tables, couples massages are performed on a bed. At my incall location couples have the choice of laying side-by-side on the bed, or one can sit on a nearby sofa and watch their partner receive a massage, then trade places on the bed when it’s their turn.
I also offer a virtual voyeur option if you’d like to book a solo massage for your partner and observe the session over FaceTime. (Brings peace of mind to couples who might be concerned for their partner’s safety or want to feel included in the experience.) It's a lot of fun and "the next best thing to being there," as they say!
What is your "Virtual Voyeur" session and how does it work?
Ever treated your sweetheart to a massage and wished you could watch? Well, now you can (with his/her permission, of course)!
This is a fun option for couples, allowing one partner to watch the other get a sensual massage over live video chat.
For your security, the video chat is done using the client's phone, not mine. You and your partner simply use whatever video call app you prefer, and we will call you at the scheduled time.
Before the session begins, I place your partner's phone up on a nearby tripod that gives a full view of the table so you can enjoy the sights (and sounds!) of the massage session live in real time.
To protect everyone’s privacy, recordings of the session are not permitted.
Where can I read your reviews?
Visit my TESTIMONIALS page to read reviews from numerous clients, many of whom have been seeing me regularly for years.
While each experience is unique and specifically tailored to the client's needs, reading previous reviews gives you a better idea of what to expect from a session with me.
I always appreciate hearing your feedback after a massage, so if you'd like to review me, please do so here.
(All reviews will be anonymized before they are published. Your name and email address are just for my reference to verify your identity. These will not be used on my website; only a first initial.)
Please note that I have a "no review policy" on escort forums such as The Erotic Review, Eccie, OurHome2 and other such "hobbyist" sites. This policy is strictly enforced.
What is the “Chat ‘N’ Chill” option?
Sometimes it’s nice to have a little more time and just relax together with a drink and some conversation.
My Chat ‘N’ Chill option allows you to add an extra hour of social ”hangout” time either before or after your massage — whichever you prefer.
We can spend time together at my place or yours, incall or outcall.
This is also a great way for new clients who might be feeling a bit nervous to get better acquainted and establish a comfort level with me on a first visit, as well as for longtime clients who want to catch up on life! I enjoy getting to know you and letting you get to know me…
What’s the difference between a FBSM and an Escort experience?
FBSM is a totally passive activity for the client. All you need to do is lay back, relax, and let me pamper you.
You don’t have to do anything, or or say anything if you’d rather relax and listen to the soothing music on my playlist… that’s the whole point of a sensual massage, and why so many people enjoy it.
There is no expectation of you to “perform” or reciprocate. You need only close your eyes, tune in to the sensation of being gently touched and cared for. It’s nice to just allow yourself to receive sometimes…
An Escort or GFE (girl friend experience) is different from sensual massage in that it is interactive instead of passive. You are allowed to reciprocate her touch. It might also involve such activities as going out on long dates, social companionship or traveling together.
* Please note that I do not offer escorting services. If you are seeking an interactive experience, I recommend searching for local escorts on websites such as Tryst.link, Velvet 22, or Eros.
Why do you require a deposit?
A small advance deposit of 20% secures your reservation. It demonstrates that you are sincere and intend to keep your appointment.
Your appointment is NOT confirmed until I have received the deposit.
Deposits are non-refundable if you cancel your appointment. Deposits can be applied to postponed appointments rescheduled within 30 days.
If I have to cancel your booking for some reason, your deposit will be refunded, or applied to your next appointment (whichever option you prefer).
How do I know my prepaid deposit is safe? Are you legit?
I’ve been a popular FBSM provider since 2015, and have established a solid reputation for honest, punctual, reliable top-notch service.
Be sure to read my client testimonials and social media accounts; make sure you feel comfortable with me before booking an appointment.
Legitimate providers like myself are not inclined to hurt our good business reputation over a small amount (deposits are usually less than $100). It’s just not worth it to us to risk a bad review, or an unhappy customer. We always prefer to make our clients happy 😊 💆🏻♂️.
Deposits are now the industry standard with all reputable massage providers, for the same reason a hotel, car rental company or hair salon requires a deposit to hold your reservation.
Once your screening is complete, you will receive further instructions on how to pay your deposit. I accept credit/debit cards, Google Pay and and Apple Pay for deposit payments here.
If you prefer a more discreet way to pay, I also accept Amazon and Walmart gift cards for deposits. E-gift cards can easily be purchased online with your credit/debit card and sent to my phone number, or you can buy a physical gift card with cash at local retailers. Be sure to save your purchase receipt when buying gift cards with cash.
Can I take you out to dinner?
Sure! I offer 2 hour social dates (you can add additional hours if you like) for gentlemen or ladies who would like some extra companionship.
A perfect option for new clients who would like some “get to know you” time, or existing clients who just want to enjoy a night out together!
I will choose a restaurant near my NW OKC incall, after discussing cuisine preferences with you, and take care of making reservations.
A 20% advance deposit is required for all dinner dates.
Will you consider a “sugar daddy” relationship?
I’m not fond of the whole sugar daddy concept (to be honest it seems creepy as a grown woman to call a man who is not my father “daddy”), but I do offer monthly VIP arrangements to certain select gentlemen who I share a genuine connection with.
My VIP arrangements include priority booking, unlimited custom massages and add-ons, regular texting or calls, weekly social dates, and extended companionship time together.
If you’re seeking something between an on-call massage therapist and a part-time girlfriend, this might be the right option for you.
I still have questions. Can we talk privately?
Absolutely! If you have questions that aren't answered on my FAQ page, require special accommodations, or would just like to establish some rapport before booking a session, I offer text and phone consultations for a small fee.
Many of my regular clients also enjoy purchasing blocks of time for virtual companionship between massage appointments. It's a great way to keep in touch!
Learn more about my pre-booking consultations for new clients, as well as virtual text/phone companionship packages here.